Change in Relationships: Embracing Transformation

Introduction:
– Change is inevitable in life and relationships
– Coping with change in romantic relationships can be difficult
– Personal experience of a 21-year marriage with constant change

Challenging the Notion of “No Longer the Person I Loved”:
– Divorcing couples citing partner’s change as the primary reason for the demise of the relationship
– Fallacy of this argument as change is a part of every long-term relationship
– Humans are constantly changing and evolving

Realizing Your Own Change:
– Every experience alters you in some way
– Changes can range from small to large shifts in thinking
– It’s important to give yourself, your partner, and the relationship space to evolve

The Importance of Embracing Change:
– Refusal to change is more detrimental than actual change in a relationship
– Long-term relationships are meant to be fluid to keep things fresh and passionate
– Understanding that all aspects of the relationship change is key to maintaining a healthy relationship

Learning to Accept, Adapt, and Encourage Change:
– Accepting and embracing the change in your partner
– Adapting to the change in your relationship
– Encouraging and challenging each other to continue evolving

Enjoying the Journey of Relationship Change:
– A long-term committed relationship is a wild emotional roller coaster
– Resisting change stunts growth and improvement in both individuals and the relationship
– Buckle up and enjoy the ride

Conclusion:
– Change in relationships can be hard at first and messy in the middle, but it can also be gorgeous at the end
– Embracing change allows individuals and the relationship to grow and develop
– Relationships are a journey through change with another person and should be enjoyed as such